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December 08, 2020

Cuppa Joe

December 08, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

Alan says there's nothing he likes better than a cuppa joe in the morning. What's that? Tune in here!

December 08, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
Cuppa Joe, FLYB, What's Up?, English slang, ESL vocabulary, American English expressions, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

October 12, 2020

Defining "Racism"

October 12, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

Merriam-Webster will change the definition of "racism" in their August 2020 update to the dictionary.

October 12, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
racism, FLYB, defining racism, definition of racism, racial prejudice + power = racism, Merriam-Webster, Feel Like You Belong

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

September 08, 2020

No More Ole and Lena Jokes

September 08, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

A while ago, I stopped telling Ole and Lena jokes – even though I'm a Swedish American. Here's why.

September 08, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
Ole and Lena jokes, FLYB, ethnic humor, Cultural Appropriation, Scandinavian-American humor, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

June 09, 2020

Passive Voice

June 09, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

This short video teaches English learners about the passive voice in speaking and writing.

June 09, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
ESL grammar, FLYB, passive voice in English, English as a second language, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

June 08, 2020

Subscribe! (Educational)

June 08, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

Stay in touch with our latest educational videos on American English and culture. Subscribe to our newsletter and YouTube channel, and follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn to stay up to date on all things FLYB!

June 08, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
Feel Like You Belong, FLYB, ESL, American English, American Culture, educational videos for immigrants, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

May 14, 2020

Vowel Contrast: /æ/ vs. /a/

May 14, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

Our students often confuse the vowels in "black" and "block" (/æ/ vs. /a/). This short video helps you hear and distinguish the two similar sounds, vowels #5 and #6 in American English.

May 14, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
English vowel sounds, FLYB, TESL, American English pronunciation, the difference between /æ/ vs. /a/, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

April 28, 2020

Equal Pay Day

April 28, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

Every spring, Americans observe Equal Pay Day, the day into the new year where women's earnings finally catch up to men's pay from the previous year. We examine five myths about the huge pay gap, look at its racial components, and make recommendations for changing this inequity.

April 28, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
Equal Pay Day, FLYB, equal pay for equal work, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

March 22, 2020

Consonant Contrast: /b/ vs. /p/

March 22, 2020/ Alan Headbloom

Some learners of English have trouble distinguishing between /b/ and /p/. Here we give tips for those students, especially speakers of Arabic, Chinese, Finnish, Korean, Spanish, and Turkish.

Narration: Alan Headbloom

Editor: Garrett Lessner

March 22, 2020/ Alan Headbloom/
American English pronunciation, English consonant sounds, Contrasting /b/ and /p/, What's the difference between English B and P?, ESL pronunciation, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

December 14, 2019

Noun Plurals: Rules and Exceptions

December 14, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

The first thing English students learn about English nouns is that they become plural by adding -s. Then, they are confronted with all the exceptions!

These nouns take -es in the plural form: analysis, crisis, hypothesis, axis, nemesis, basis, thesis, parenthesis, synthesis, oasis, synopsis.

These nouns take -a in the plural form: criterion, phenomenon.

December 14, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
English grammar, FLYB, noun plurals, exceptions to English noun plurals, when English plurals don't take -s, ESL, ESL grammar, nouns in English, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

November 01, 2019

Since vs. For

November 01, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

Learners are often confused by the words "for" and "since" when practicing their English. Here is a short tutorial on when to use which.

November 01, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
Since or For?, FLYB, Since vs. For, What's the difference between Since and For?, ESL grammar, English as a second language, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

September 20, 2019

Implicit Bias: Strange Voices

September 20, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

We are all biased toward some people and against others. That includes when we hear foreign accents. However, research shows that listening to people who don't talk like you can be beneficial for your brain. Here's how.

September 20, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
Implicit bias, FLYB, Accent bias, Different accent, foreign accent, language accent, You talk funny., What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

September 20, 2019

Levels of Racism

September 20, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

There is a lot of confusion over the word "racism" in American society. We need to 1) distinguish people from their behaviors and 2) distinguish name-calling from more powerful, broad-based forms of discrimination.

September 20, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
levels of racism, FLYB, 4 levels of racism, understanding racism, internalized racis, internalized racism, interpersonal racism, institutional racism, structural racism, systematic racism, racism in America, distinguishing types of racism, the N-word, cross-burning, blackface, redlining, school to prison pipeline, Feel Like You Belong, What's Up?, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

August 17, 2019

Past Tense vs. Present Perfect

August 17, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

English verb tenses can be tricky for second language learners. Here, Alan explains the difference between the past tense and present perfect in English. If you have questions afterward, write us so we can help.

August 17, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
ESL grammar, FLYB, English verb tenses, past vs present perfect, American English grammar, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

August 12, 2019

Strengthening Your Vocabulary

August 12, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

Deep – deepen, bright – brighten. English has the power to make adjectives into verbs by adding two letters. Alan explains to his ESL students how to do this.

August 12, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
English vocabulary, FLYB, adjectives, verbs, ESL, English as a second language, Verbs with -en, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

August 12, 2019

Language that Demeans

August 12, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

When we use labels harshly and carelessly, it creates negative influences. Alan talks about how demeaning language creates ill will and harms our humanity.

August 12, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
Stereotypes, FLYB, rapists and murderers, cockroaches, vermin, Mexicans, Jews, Holocaust, Hitler, Donald Trump, negative labels., What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, rural Michigan

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

August 04, 2019

Common Spelling Mistakes

August 04, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

Alan discusses the differences between words that sound similar but are wholly different in their meaning. The examples presented in the video are 1) apart vs. a part, 2) a lot vs. allot, and 3) every day vs. everyday.

August 04, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
English spelling, FLYB, ESL, ESL grammar, common spelling mistakes, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

March 10, 2019

Gerrymandering

March 10, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

When politicians artificially redraw voting districts to guarantee their political advantage, democracy suffers. Alan gives an overview of gerrymandering, gives simple examples, and explains why it's unfair.

March 10, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
Gerrymandering, FLYB, Elbridge Gerry, Massachusetts, American politics, voter districts, fair voting, Michigan Proposal 2, End gerrymandering, Voters Not Politicians, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

February 21, 2019

Equity vs. Inclusion

February 21, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

Is your organization inclusive? Is it equitable? We use a bleacher analogy to illustrate these concepts and to show the difference between them.

February 21, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
inclusion, FLYB, equity, Is my organization inclusive?, Is my organization equitable?, equity = access, Chris Macon, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

January 11, 2019

The Starfish Flinger (retold)

January 11, 2019/ Alan Headbloom

Walking the beach at dawn, an old man notices a young girl tossing stranded starfish from the shore back into the ocean. A simple tale with a profound message. (Retold here with new images.)

January 11, 2019/ Alan Headbloom/
starfish, FLYB, washed-up starfish, saving starfish, girl saves starfish, starfish tale, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

December 31, 2018

Linking Phrases

December 31, 2018/ Alan Headbloom

How do English learners make their speech more fluid and natural sounding? By linking adjacent words together. Alan gives some examples.

December 31, 2018/ Alan Headbloom/
ESL, FLYB, English pronunciation, American English, vowels, consonants, linking phrases, What's Up?, Feel Like You Belong, Alan Headbloom

Alan Headbloom

Alan advises Americans how to be global citizens and expats how to fit in to Michigan culture without annoying their native coworkers and clients. He also tweets and blogs at the intersection of language and culture. Over decades, he's traveled, studied, or lived on six continents, putting strange foods into his mouth and emitting strange sounds from it. His use of English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Swedish, Hausa, and Japanese all improve with alcohol use. He gives invited public presentations on culture and unsolicited private advice on English grammar and usage; the latter isn't always appreciated. Visit his website for information on consulting, coaching, or speaking engagements.

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Feel Like You Belong is a sometimes serious, sometimes funny, always “touch-your-heart” real conversation about fitting into the American culture. It introduces guests who have made the immigrant journey to the United States. The stories–of both struggle and success–will help newcomers feel more confident in sharing their opinions and expertise, more likely to want to stay in the U.S., be more productive in their jobs, and fully invest in their communities.

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